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Half-your-age-plus-seven-rule

Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by mikeconley11, Jan 14, 2018 at 1:12 AM.

  1. mikeconley11

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    Do any of you break this rule?

    So let's say you're 18 years old. Divide your age by 2 (9) and then add 7 to make 16. So the rule is anything under 16 is weird for an 18 year old to date. Or if you're 30 it would be a 22 year old. Or for a 0 year old, it would be 7 etc.

    I think it's a pretty solid rule. I judge the shit out of people who break it. Come forth if you break it so I can publicly judge you.
     
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    Half my age plus 7 is 34, and my girlfriend is 39. Whew! :)
     
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    skrinkle Cat Mom Staff Member Mod Squad

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    Yeah I'm a fan of this rule, and don't think I'd ever feel the need to break it :iik:
    I guess my youngest bf can be 21 almost 22
     
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    The rule for the elder is, if we let the elder's age be E, that they can only be involved with someone younger, whose age is Y, such that:

    Y ≥ E/2 + 7

    This implies:

    2(Y - 7) ≥ E

    Now, if I put myself in the shoes of the younger, this means:

    2(54 - 7) ≥ E

    2(47) ≥ E

    94 ≥ E

    Egads. a 94 year old woman could date me without violating the rule. :(
     
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    So my oldest can be 42?
     
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    Yes. :)
     
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    That's cool that your oldest is twice your youngest...if we equate the oldest to twice the youngest, and let the person's age be A, we have:

    2(A - 7) = 2(A/2 + 7)

    Solving for A, we get:

    2A - 14 = A + 14

    A = 28

    So, 28 is the age for which that works. :)
     
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    Do me! What's the oldest cougar I can get? I'm 19.

    The youngest I can go for is 16.5 which would be weird for me. It'd feel like we're at different stages in life, I know a guy who dated a 16 year old (he's my age) and she was complaining about doing homework. The guy was complaining about his full time job. It's just weird.

    I feel like I turned 18 when I was 5, my mind is old. Maybe that's why I speak to you old hags all the time lol.
     
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    If we let the oldest be k times the youngest, where k ≥ 1, we have:

    2(A - 7) = k(A/2 + 7)

    2A - 14 = (k/2)A + 7k

    2A - (k/2)A = 7k + 14

    A((4 - k)/2) = 7(k + 2)

    A = [14(k + 2)]/(4 - k)

    So, we see that for A ≥ 0 (and for A to be defined), we require k < 4.
     
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    Your oldest would be 24. :)
     
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    I guess that puts my range at 20 (20.5 to be exact) to 40 but I don't see how I could successfully date a 40 year old woman at 27. My range I look in is usually just 5 years in either direction. I'd be potentially willing to bend and go a bit older but not younger for what I'm looking for.
     
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    Oops lol my oldest ex is 49 rn :imslow:
     
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    I just dont date anyone who is too immature, and 20 is my youngest cut off, oldest cutoff is probably 45 atm.
     
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    So, if you are 400 years old, the youngest you can date is 207? :(
     
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    I agree under 20 have no idea about good damn anything to do with their lives hahaha
     
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