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How can you love 2

Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by JPC, Mar 8, 2016.

  1. JPC

    JPC New Member

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    I'm in love with 2 women. I was with one but it didn't work out after 6 years we parted ways ... Now I have a new love and we are set to marry ... Old girl reappears and an affair ensues ... The more I think about it the more I find that the love I have for the ex is a sexual carnal love and attraction and I can't seem to get away from it I'm fucked ... Help
     
  2. Mark CM

    Mark CM Administrator Staff Member

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    Who is hotter?
     
  3. JPC

    JPC New Member

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    They are both very attractive body wise my ex is what I normally like. Little curvier my fiancé is quite athletic
     
  4. djfly

    djfly Smiter of Spam

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    Find yourself before you look for others. Obviously, you have not yet figured out what you need in your own life and because of it, you should NOT be talking to anyone about anything long term.
     
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  5. Fiscokyd

    Fiscokyd New Member

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    Do they know each other?... if there is distance between the 2 I would just keep one for back up....sometimes having 2 women at once makes a person more emotionally strong...but you can't treat them both the same....that's a big non no
     
  6. arcticeagle

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    agree with djfly
     
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    looks like you weren't ready for marriage mate.
     
  8. bananska

    bananska New Member

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    you dont deserve either. not cool.
     
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  9. Cib3rNaut

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    To love 2 would be like loving 1 and 1 combined or a version of numerals being divided and converted to make 2, have I solved your problem or should be go over the equation again
     
  10. Cib3rNaut

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    I don't find anything in common with anyone around, and cannot afford to travel any distance to find another suitable humanoid to call more than a friend, suggestions
     
  11. skullpirate01

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    Maybe he should just marry them both and raise kids with them both, cause he says he loves them both so why not? WHATS SO WRONG WITH THAT HUH HUH
     
  12. Wrecky

    Wrecky Valkyrie Staff Member

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    Internet dating is your answer!
     
  13. Wrecky

    Wrecky Valkyrie Staff Member

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    And maybe they should all move in together and get a third woman while they're at it. I think most polyamorous minded people would really suit the polygamist lifestyle, and like.. you get to be a god or something in the next life :p
     
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  14. Cib3rNaut

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    If only we could clone Wrecky, interesting concept
     
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    lellojello Member

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    You have one of three options
    Look into poly.
    Continue being a cheating asshole and lie about it.
    Figure out which one you like, and stop being a cheating asshole.

    I'm sorry, I have less than zero pity for this self-imposed "hardship"
     
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