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Is viewing a cam girl considered cheating?

Discussion in 'Sex' started by skrinkle, Dec 4, 2017.

  1. J.Town

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    Is viewing a cam girl cheating?

    If you feel the need to keep it a secret, yes. If you're open and honest about it, no.
     
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  2. Slimeball

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    I know this wasn't directed at me, but when I do it it's kind of both. Easy passive income and I'm into exhibitionism so I enjoy being watched.
     
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  3. Joelface

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    You know personally, I think viewing a cam girl would only constitute cheating if that was the intent of the interactions. Is the person trying to woo the cam girl, or sort of crossing those emotional boundaries? I know it's possible to develop a very personal relationship with a specific cam girl and to keep coming back to the same girl, not just because you enjoy her performances, but because you're trying to build something real with her. And in those cases, I think it at least severely veers in the direction of cheating.

    But to casually view or interact with a cam girl, to me, is essentially the same as watching any kind of porn online. You're mostly interacting with the porn salesman, if you will. It obviously gets a bit more interesting than that, as you can head down the niche roads of your personal fantasies, but that's just better porn.

    Obviously couples may set their own boundaries, though, so there is no single right or wrong answer.
     
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  4. skrinkle

    skrinkle Cat Mom Staff Member Mod Squad

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    I agree with everything you just said, but for some reason I still feel jealous thinking about my bf talking to a cam girl lol :(
     
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  5. Joelface

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    I think there is the type of jealousy that you need to address with your partner, and there is the type of jealousy that you need to address to yourself. Jealousy can be a sign that something isn't right in the relationship, but it can also mean that you're dealing with something unhealthy in the way you're approaching your relationship and your life. There are so many men that are so jealous that they don't want their wives or girlfriends to have any male friends, for example.

    I'm not saying your jealous feelings are one or the other -- and even if they are the unhealthy kind, that doesn't necessarily mean you should feel bad about that, because it's very normal.

    I am curious though... is it any kind of interaction with a cam girl that would make you feel upset, or is it more of the fact that he'd be complimenting her, etc. I'm just curious to hear you explain more about those feelings.
     
  6. skrinkle

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    It’s the fact that she’s a real girl, who can interact and see him I think. It’s not so much him being able to see and communicate with an adult entertainer, as it is the girl seeing and speaking to him. Because she’s still a person, and not a sex object. And people fall in love or form relationships with their customers in every business. She could find herself attracted to him, and she could cross a line not knowing he has a s/o (and he might not realize it’s become real since she’s supposed to be “pretending” to be sexually aroused by him) and then that to me would be cheating, even if he is unaware of what’s happening. Idk I think it’s a slippery slope to actively engage with a real live girl.
     
  7. Mr.Lame

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    That's why you just watch!
     

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