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Loving someone you’re not compatible with

Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by skrinkle, Dec 17, 2017.

  1. Jamesr666

    Jamesr666 Newbie

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    Yup and that's what I am doing
     
  2. Jamesr666

    Jamesr666 Newbie

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    Yup and that's what I'm doing now
     
  3. mcpon14

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    Sorry that that happened to you. :(
     
  4. Jamesr666

    Jamesr666 Newbie

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    It's okay she's missing out on a great guy
     
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  5. imakehersay

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    Sometimes I find missing someone is more enjoyable than being w/ them
     
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  6. skrinkle

    skrinkle Cat Mom Staff Member Mod Squad

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    I agree lol. Being single is so interesting.
     
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  7. .:Batman:.

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    Stemming from that, the game of being single that is cat and mouse... it’s fun in the beginning when you’re chasing and being chased it’s exviting but things settle down and get boring.
     
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    Nah I think it's a trade-off and having someone is just as fun as not having someone and always being on the prowl lol
     
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    Most likely no.

    Loving someone and living together with him/her are two different things. A long lasting relationship requires compatibility i.e. you need a partner, not a lover. Love on the other hand is really nothing more but your own self-gratification, it's a form of infatuation and thus someone who love too much can also end up with too much hate because love is not about others - it's about you.
     
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    My wife and I are polar opposites and I couldn't be happier.
     
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    I don't find it that gratifying to lose yourself, love is too terrifying for me.

     
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    Honestly the term opposites attract is true. When it comes to love, it's an equal of give and take and finding common ground whenever possible. If one wants to be in the city, the other the country, you settle for the suburbs you know?

    Anything can be made possible if you put the effort and understanding to it. Yet if it's only a one way street than nah no chance in hell unless you want a divorce or you end up murdering each other haha
     
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