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Virginity

Discussion in 'Sex' started by Wrecky, Jan 10, 2017.

  1. SirJordan

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    Other than being pressured into it, why did it suck?
     
  2. Chivalry

    Chivalry New Member

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    Most definately. Long story short, it was only cause of the constant pressuring and such. One time and I never finished
     
  3. Wrecky

    Wrecky Valkyrie Staff Member

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    Yeah that sounds pretty awful. I hope since then it's been a lot better for you.
     
  4. Chivalry

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    Definately
     
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    Just have sex with Wrecky's screencap, It's there to console all of us
     
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  6. Wrecky

    Wrecky Valkyrie Staff Member

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    I should post a photo with my mouth open to give y'all somewhere to aim :eek:
     
  7. SirJordan

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    Why just the mouth?
     
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  8. Cib3rNaut

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    Just post pictures of your feet SirJordan is offended
     
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  9. SirJordan

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    Eww feet are nasty :yuck:
     
  10. Karlijn

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    I haven't read all the replies, but I may be nexopia's lasr virgin (yay me). Not by choice or because I don't believe in sex before marriage or whatever, but to many guys a wheelchair is apparently a turn off. Granted, there are also men to whom it's a turn on, but those guys..... No. Just no.
     
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  11. Wrecky

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    Lol @Karlijn I suspect a lot of men aren't turned off exactly, just ignorant. It'll happen, but you may need to be agressive if you are perceived as fragile ;)
     
  12. Cib3rNaut

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    Maybe wheelchair modelling hasn't really reached it full hawtness yet, After you master that. The world is your dong collection
     
  13. Mark CM

    Mark CM Administrator Staff Member

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    @Karlijn not sure how old you are and I totally get that somebody with a wheelchair fetish can be gross. But I also see that as an advantage for you. It will take time, as @Wrecky said. But as long as you weed out the assholes, I'm sure you'll meet some smart, confident people who see you for who you are.

    I guess what I'm saying is to a certain extent, anybody you end up with will inevitably see the wheelchair as something to like about you. As long as they see you first, and the wheelchair second.
     
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  14. Wrecky

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    Well, so far that seems to be the problem. Not just in getting a relationship (which I'm not desperate about) but in every day life. I've had servers ask my dad what I wanted to have in a restaurant.
    And yep, some guys can be gross. I've had some dude offer me 200 Euros, because "he had never done it with a wheelchair girl before." On the other hand, seeing him run for his life while my friends tried to tackle him was kind of hilarious.
     
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  16. Mark CM

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    That server shit is fucked. I know it can be hard, but that's next-level ignorant. I've received training on this and you should ALWAYS talk to the person in the wheelchair or with any disability. But, of course, you know that @Karlijn. Anyway, I'm sorry you have to go through that. I hope your Dad said "Ask her yourself and then go get another waiter to help our table and I hope to god you don't pool your tips."

    For the dating stuff, just focus on being awesome. Guys like smart, confident women regardless of the external stuff. It's definitely a hurdle and I think you have to accept that, see the positive in it, and take strength from that.

    It's like that episode of Freaks & Geeks where Gordon tells the Geeks that he has a disease that gives him really gnarly B.O. Sam is like "Will you always be smelly?" and he says "Yeah. But I don’t mind. Nice people don’t care and it weeds out the jerks." (sorry, I am a broken human who only relates to TV & Movies)
     
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  17. Wrecky

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  18. Ablazeintheflames

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    I was 17 and my friend (she is still my friend) was horny and she pulled my pants down went to town on me and I did her missionary and cowgirl in my friends bed lmao! Even worse he started dating her a few months later made things awkward
     
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  19. Wrecky

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    That is awesome, hilarious and random. Fitting :D
     
  20. Ablazeintheflames

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    Shit happens lol what was even worse was the question when they were toget her she wanted a 3 way and I told him I don't want your balls touching mine so no lol