Cheating

Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by Penguin604, May 25, 2017.

  1. Penguin604

    Penguin604 Guest

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    What are your thoughts on cheating?
    Do you believe in a don't ask don't tell situation or do you let your partner know you're interested in someone else?
    How much cheating is too much cheating?
    Just curious.
    This is a serious post by the way.
    Personally I believe in monogamy but it seems the times have changed.
     
  2. skrinkle

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    I don't know anyone who thinks it's ok
     
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  3. Wrecky

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    If Mr Wrecky ever cheated on me I'd probably chop his balls off :P
     
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  4. Wrecky's Spirit Animal

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    I'm loyal to one female at a time. Of course instincts take hold and you have flirtations and fantasies but I believe in self-control. Something most people don't seem to have anymore unfortunately. For me its a no cheating PERIOD type policy. If you do cheat though I prefer to know so I can pack my shit and leave instead of waste time with a slag. I'd reciprocate as well if I ever cheated.
     
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  5. Posta

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    Lol exactly @Wrecky we have a $25,000 cheating clause and a "I'm taking your right arm" agreement :hilarious:
     
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  6. Vassago

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    Can't stand cheaters. The weakest and most cowardly of them all.
     
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    I don't understand the point of cheating, is it just for the thrill of sneaking around?
     
  8. magaz

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    I think people do it because they either self sabotage or like the danger rush of having a secret
     
  9. sharkbait.

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    People cheat for a variety of reasons. I've never cheated but I've been cheated on a few times and it comes down to:

    - The cheater is horny and the opportunity for fresh sex presents itself
    - The cheater wants out of a relationship, because cheating is a great way to end something
    - The cheater takes pride in sexual conquests, so when another kill comes along...

    etc. etc. etc. just my two cents
     
  10. skrinkle

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    Once I cheated because he cheated on me first :)
     
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  12. The Punjabi Playboy

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    If you're not cheating, you're not trying.
     
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  13. Fire_Charged

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    Ive never cheated and I never would! why not just break up with them if you want to mess around with someone else???
     
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  14. Karlijn

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    Because he's rich and lives in a villa with a pool? :shifty:
     
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    I don't like cheaters.
     
  16. .diandra.

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    Honestly there are so many varying levels of cheating that it becomes complicated. Based on my last two relationships however, I would not stand for emotional either and would break up with my current bf if anything remotely shady occurred.
     
  17. skrinkle

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    Emotional cheating scares me more than physical cheating :iik:
    If someone physically cheated on me I’d call them a pos and be done with them. If someone emotionally cheated on me my heart would crumble.
     
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  18. mcpon14

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    That's the Belichick motto. :rofl:
     
  19. .diandra.

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    lol lazarus emotionally cheated on me and it actually destroyed me sooooooooooo badly lmao
     
  20. handbanane

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    One major issue I had with emotional cheating was that sometimes it's just subtle enough that it's hard to prove and then the other person does their best to just gaslight you when you call them on it so they can keep on doing it.
     

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