To make a very long story short... Ex broke up w/me 2 months He said he needed a break to figure out his life He hooked up with some girl (he said they only kissed) Ive been heart broken He text me everyday He's apologized for hurting me and wishes he could take everything back But still doesn't want a relationship right now Says he wants to take it slow We have had sex several times in last few weeks Ive tried cutting him off few times but he refuses to let me go and says lets just take it day by day Im completely in love with this man and don't know what to do Not sure if he's using me for sex or really wants to take things slow getting back together My question is... Should I cut him off because he doesn't know what he wants or should I be patient and keep hanging around.. it hurts to be in limbo like this because I want to be with him.. NEED Advice!!!!!!
He’s just using you for sex with no commitment. You love the idea of who he is, but who he is is actually a using piece of shit
That's all that has to be said. If he calls you twice after you cut him off, call the cops, you don't need to be a write up in the obit column.
I'm sure he cares for you but I don't think knows he's stringing you along. He'll do it until he isn't co-dependent emotionally on you. It hard to break-up or to be broken up with and to never talk or be around each other suddenly. Keep this in mind as you both learn to adapt to being single.
