Feeling depressed over break-up. Help me.

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  1. tenderman32

    tenderman32 Newbie

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    I’m at the point of my life now where I don’t feel like living anymore. I feel like I’m a lost cause after my girlfriend decided to call it off. It’s been months since things ended between us but I’m still not over her. Not by a long shot. Each day I just feel worse. I don’t think I will be able to recover from the grief. I just feel so depressed and lost.


    I still remember meeting her for the first time in that foreign dating event. She got my attention the moment we started talking. Since then, I’ve imagined a future with her. I thought that that was it. I already found the one. Turns out I was wrong. How do I move on? How do I forget someone whom I was already planning to share my life with? How??
     
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  2. skrinkle

    skrinkle Cat Mom

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    Just imagine her pooping
     
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  3. mikeconley11

    mikeconley11 Guest

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    Distract yourself. Get a dog.
     
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  4. Wrecky

    Wrecky Valkyrie

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    Wow people have had so much luck with that foreign dating event :imslow: OP can you tell me more about it?
     
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  5. deadlemon

    deadlemon Member

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    don't be so weak?
     
  6. mikeconley11

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    Is this seriously a long con advertisement for a dating event? Gtfo lol
     
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  7. Wrecky

    Wrecky Valkyrie

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    Excuse you, I'm trying to figure out how to meet the person of my dreams and then later get savagely dumped... move along
     
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  8. tenderman32

    tenderman32 Newbie

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    I already have 2 dogs... :D I should probably consider a cat too? :bored:

    It went really well between us, we were together for 2 years and 7 months. We talked about a lot of things, I promised that I would let her experience things she missed out on when she was younger and she promised me unimaginable things too. It pains me a lot, because... for that 2 years, though mostly long distance... I visited her and she visited me. She met my family and I met hers... it already came to a point where both sides are already comfortable and happy with us. I honestly don't know where things went wrong.

    Everything was going well and out of nowhere, she started bringing up issues where I didn't know existed. Maybe I was just dense? I guess I was too focused on the good vibes and I never noticed what was going on... but, yeah... I can't help it, but I still have feelings for her. Moving on is something that makes me feel like I don't want to take. But, I have to... at least that's what everyone keeps telling me.
     
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    Wrecky Valkyrie

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    I'm sure he hasn't heard that one before :rolleyes:
     
  11. Gus

    Gus Veteran

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    It’s taken me over a year to get over people. Be patient, stay strong!
     
  12. izbestbro

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    Look for someone else.
    There isn't just one person for everyone out there.
    There's 8 billion people on the planet.
    It's not crazy to think there's tens of thousands of girls or guys out there you will click with.
     
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    mcpon14 Bleeds Nexopia

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    You could see a psychiatrist or a psychologist. :)
     
  14. sh4n3y

    sh4n3y Nexopian Elder

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    I'm still not over the cashier that was polite to me today
     
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  15. mcpon14

    mcpon14 Bleeds Nexopia

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    Man, there sure are some gorgeous cashiers out there, especially at Starbucks, lol.
     
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    I was talking to a Starbucks cashier on whisper a couple years ago, and she was pissed at her boyfriend so she send me her nudes. I wish I knew which Starbucks she worked at :imslow:
     

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