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Frustrations [Oh no! An Opinion!]

Discussion in 'LGBTQ+' started by moonshards, Dec 16, 2018.

  1. moonshards

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    I love the LGBTQ+ community. I love it a lot. But there are a lot of frustrations that not only come from closed minded people, but the community in it's self.

    As members of the LGBT we all know homophobic people just want to see us die a horrible, painful death. Or have rights that are unlike their own for some reason(???)

    But the community it's self? The toxicity within the community is suffocating; and at times I wonder why we're still be taken serious at all.

    I think my main issue is "neo-pronouns." I hate the term "snowflake" to describe these individuals, but honestly I see no other way to describe these individuals. Neo-pronouns are used to describe people who refuse to use she/her, he/him, or they/them pronouns.

    The "pronouns" they choose to go by are made up terms. These terms are zi/zer, and xir/xer.
    This is fucking ridiculous to me.

    Don't get me wrong, I have went by every label in the book that I felt at the time. From Genderfluid, to a transgender male, I have tried everything. I finally found peace as a demi-girl and demisexuality (homoromantic/lesbian).

    But that's besides the point. In other words I get it. The want to be accepted and to fit in...but do you really need to describe yourself as anything but human? It's ridiculous that people have to use fucking Tumblr terms, made by sexually frustrated or bored teenagers, to feel validated? It's attention-seeking bullshit.

    I can understand the dire to want to be accepted, but Snowflakes are honestly taking up most the community. I know i will probably get hate for this, but it's fucking stupid. The LGBTQ+ has fought way too long to allow Tumblr access into our sexuality and gender.

    As if Tumblr is a good platform anyways. Child porn, neo-Nazism, and pedophiles(MAPS) and pedophile supporters. Why should we allow a website that accepts pedophiles as a "sexuality" determine our mental health.

    As someone who has been diagnosed with Gender Dysphoria, it saddens me to see the kids growing up in a world in which they will be made fun of for something they can't help, and try to express with a made-up label.
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  2. skrinkle

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    Personally I much prefer zi/zer to they/them. They them in certain context can get very confusing. For example, I was reading a news article about a person who preferred they/them and all throughout the article I thought “they” meant multiple people. The term “they/them” when used in an article about a single person can make it sound like the writer is talking about multiple people or another person other than the main character/person. With something like zi/zer, it’s more clear that the writer is referring to the single person/main character.

    I’ve never heard of xi/xer though, and I think anymore than 3 is unnecessary.


    Also, I’m wondering what you mean by pedophiles and pedophile supporters? I don’t use tumblr myself, so I’m unaware of what goes on there. I do however believe that pedophilia is a very real sexuality and not a choice. The acting on it is a choice though, and if there’s people on tumblr posting pictures of young kids then that’s sick.
     
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  3. moonshards

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    You're fucking disgusting. Pedophillia is not a fucking sexuality. Goddamn. As someone who is a minor I am now beyond terrified of you.
     
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    Sexual attractions aren’t a choice. There is plenty of proof for that. But for some reason it’s still a choice for pedophiles or objectophiles? Anything other than an adult man/woman?

    Your first paragraph expresses frustration over closed minded people, and your second post is so closed minded you resort to insults and rage. Interesting!
     
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  5. Squire72

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    Pedophiles are physically/mentally wired to be attracted to pre pubescent children. Whether it’s something they’re born with, or the result of childhood abuse and trauma seems to be debatable, but the fact those people feel that way is tragic.

    If they don’t abuse children they suffer, if they do they deserve to suffer - it’s a no win situation for them. They’re an abbhorant, disgusting flaw that needs to be put to an end, no child deserves to be tortured and abused that way, and no human should suffer those interests.
     
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    Hello / goodbye
     
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    I would say that the term 'snowflake' fits you perfectly.
    Gay+ people say it's not their decision to be gay, rather it's how they're programed.
    So for you to think a pedophilie can consciously decide not to be attracted to children is an oxymoron.
     
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    Hi.


    **** you..


    Bye
     
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