Have you ever dated a friends ex?

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  1. Wrecky

    Wrecky Valkyrie

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    At least that shows some respect for the relationship. :)
     
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    sh4n3y Nexopian Elder

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    I don't think people should have "dibs" on someone they broke up with?
    Obviously it didn't work out so whats the issue
    They moved on in every case so why can't their ex

    People aren't property you can't own someone lmao
     
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    I've met many of those over the years.
     
  4. Wrecky

    Wrecky Valkyrie

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    I hear you, I just think like.. expand the circle a bit. If everyone dated their friends ex's I see there being a lot more potential problems than if everyone just moved on and dated someone outside the circle.
    Every time I've broken up with someone I moved on and left the group so there wouldn't be any awkwardness. :P
     
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    I hope your friend got over her after that :P
     
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    sh4n3y Nexopian Elder

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    It's not that I've only dated friends exes or something so idk what that post is about
     
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    I think with the "numerous times" I'm assuming it was more than 1 person. But I didn't say I think you only date friends ex's and no one else :P I'm just saying, for me, I've been friends with groups that basically just switch partners a couple times a year and it was wayyyy too weird for me. Opted out :clap:
     
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    Yeah that's one to do it quick
     
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  9. sh4n3y

    sh4n3y Nexopian Elder

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    I have dated a lot of people
    I had a bad slut phase

    But it's over now
    I've been reborn
     
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    Kind of, i didn't ask for permission because I never thought it would happen. I had to end it quickly because they reminded me of the friends face and I couldn't take it.
     
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    nah because the friend was always more important than the ex because if u date the ex u stand the possibility of losing both the ex and the friend in the long run *que the eagles song*
     
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    I’ve never really wanted to, but I’m a strong believer that you should never date someone twice unless the break up was for reasons beyond anyone’s control, like one person moved away, even though they were both happy in the relationship. Nobody has a “claim” on anyone else beyond what that person chooses to give them, so if they wanted to date me now, their source of claim isn’t valid anymore.

    My last ex dated one of my friends, but that we almost 20 years before I was with her, and he’s married with a kid now
     
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    Is it okay to date a friend's ex if all three of you guys are really good buddies? :shifty:
     
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    I don’t know that there are any real rules there, nice when everyone is comfortable with the situation though
     
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    Not me but my best friend dated this guy on and off for four years and now our other best friend is living and has a baby with him. It's a super weird situation but everyone seems fine haha
     
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    Kustamogen I fap twohanded

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    I exclusively date friend's exes.......I get the down-low on the pube sich
     
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    Are you for or against pubes? This information is important to our friendship
     
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    Kustamogen I fap twohanded

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    Depends! Some girls have nice natural pubes, others not so much. So depends on the girl!
     
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    No you can't be on the fence, choose a side
     
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    Oh yes I can! It's a situational construct! :P
     

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