This seems to be an argument my s/o and I have every year lol. My family lives about a 10 hour drive from where we live, and his family lives about a 7 hour drive from where we live. I have two cats, and the last two times I went on vacation the cats didn’t do too well (Herbert wouldn’t eat, and Cola got constipated and a bunch of acne) so I don’t like the idea of leaving them unless I have to. Last year we spent Christmas at home and his family came out to see us. The two years before that we actually lived with my Dad, so we were with him. And the year before that we flew out to see his family. So now we’re at this year, and he’s really pressuring me to go to see his family for Christmas even though we have no one to watch my cats and also no money lol. I don’t know what to do. Also I hate traveling, I’m terrified of planes/heights and also icy mountain highways lmao.