How long does it take you to know if you love someone?

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  1. skrinkle

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    For me ~6 months every time, so if I dumped you at the 6 month mark that’s why :)
     
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  2. sharkbait.

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    Pretty sure we've never dated lol but good to know~ :speech:
     
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  3. Karlijn

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    Nearly three months and counting
     
  4. Mak1442

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    I don't think it take me a long time but in my book there is level of love so maybe for full love it could take 6 month.
     
  5. Joelface

    Joelface Newbie

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    I think 6 months sounds about right... but honestly, that’s just the beginning. It takes years to really know and understand a person, and even then you will only ever know your side of who they are. Staying in love is something that both people have to work at... and it never stays the same.
     
  6. FlamesFanatic

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    Around 6 months is solid. Let's the initial infatuation phase wear off.

    The last girl I dated broke up with me because I wouldn't say I love You to her after 3 weeks. I told her I didn't know her well enough to say it
    Maybe I seem shallow, but those words are significant in my mind, not just something I can throw around like it's nothing.

    Which is probably why I'll be forever alone
     
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  7. skrinkle

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    Such a turn off when they say it too early. Makes you wonder how many people they've said it to.
     
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    Pretty much. She was not happy. She said it, and I was just like "uuuuhhhhhhhhhh"

    You can't possibly know that yet lol. And if you do, you scare me and are probably going to stalk me.
     
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    I almost broke up with Mr Wrecky because he hadn't said it after a year :P But I didn't say it either, and now we've been together for 6+ years and he says it sometimes and I'm just like, yeah.. you too buddy :gjob: :nuts:
     
  10. imakehersay

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    I fall in love very easily it only takes an instant, but the instant rarely happens.
     

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