Is "wrastlin'" sexual?

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  1. mikeconley11

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    I was wrastlin' with a flatmate. Her boyfriend (we're friends) walked in and got all pissy about it. But like, we're close friends and I wouldn't want to **** a flatmate. And what else are you supposed to do when drunk anyway? Now it's just going to be awkward between us.

    Do you think he was being possessive? I was just sitting on her, that's barely wrastlin'. And it's not like I'm a sexual threat, I'm just a humble motherfucker with a big ass dick. Well maybe not all that humble but whatever.
     
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  2. sharkbait.

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    Lol so you were about to bone a guys girl and he walked in? Tough luck chum :rofl:
     
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    No, we're genuinely just friends. Wrastlin' is not sexual!
     
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    Could be could be but if I were someone's s/o and walked in on them wrastlin' with someone else Yeah I would be more than a little jelly too~
     
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    That's the least sexual wrastlin there is! I think he was being insecure
     
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    If I came home and found my girlfriend wresting with one of my buddies, I think I'd get bent out of shape a bit. It's the kind of physical contact that one man should know not to have with another man's woman when he's not around. I don't want my buddies brushing her hair or massaging her feet either...and those can be said to be non-sexual, but they are somewhat intimate.
     
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    Brushing hair? What's wrong with that? He's seen me lick her ear (as a joke) and he didn't do anything, seems a little stupid to get worked up over wrastlin'. I guess in hindsight I could have wore a shirt, but still it's not enough to be shunned like god damn
     
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    Exactly! I'm still drunk lol, but I won't push it because I think I heard him say he does boxing and I'm a skinny guy
     
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    Tell him to take his shirt off and get in there with you two :)
     
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    did she teach you some moves to use on that 10 year old
     
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  11. .:Batman:.

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    It’s sexual if you get a boner
     
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    what if she gets a boner
     
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  13. MarkFL

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    It is an intimate act. It's not the kind of intimacy I would want my girlfriend sharing with another man.

    Perhaps the difference was whether he was there when it happened or not. Plus, everyone's different in how they'd react here...but given that you had been drinking, that likely only made it worse in the eyes of your friend.

    I would apologize to your friend, let him know you meant no harm, but that you will respect this boundary in the future.
     
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    I agree with the hair brushing, I wouldn't be comfortable with anyone touching my hair unless I was at a salon. But I'd drunkenly sit on a friend (not their lap tho, wait what part of her did you sit on?) if we were super close, like a roommate.

    I was imagining you sitting on her like how I would sit on my sister when we were kids lol
     
  15. mikeconley11

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    Sitting on the chest, less sexual than it sounds. Who sits on laps when wrastlin'?
     
  16. skrinkle

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    Ok, was your crotch in her chin tho?
     
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    I don't really remember, probably on the boobs tbh. I've been doing Jiu Jitsu recently and you get in these sort of positions all the time, it's just not sexual at all
     
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    Ok I’m still on your side. I’ve sat on my sisters chest while fighting many times :pee:
     
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    its only sexual if you were both making sexual advances
     
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    The triangle choke and the north-south, etc.? :)
     
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