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Long distance relationships

Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by skrinkle, Dec 10, 2017.

  1. Rene Lopez

    Rene Lopez Newbie

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    Absolutely hard in a long distance relationship
     
  2. handbanane

    handbanane Moderator

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    Can't do it. A lot of needs would go unfulfilled and things would go to shit in a hurry. I know myself well enough to know that I wouldn't be able to handle it for any real length of time. If we had already been together for a long time and it was just a temporary situation then I'd stick it out and stay committed but otherwise, just no.
     
  3. guitarchick0616

    guitarchick0616 Newbie

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    My wife and I started as long distance. It can be hard, very hard. I believe though that if you make enough effort, it can work. I used to send my now wife letters even though we only lived a couple hrs away from each other. We always kept in touch. Communication is key.
     
  4. Squire72

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    It can work if it’s honest, patient and there’s a realistic plan in place to actually turn it into a real life situation. Most of them fail badly, but sometimes it’s worth the risk if the feelings are genuine

    You actually get a chance to know who the other person is, which gets missed in real life sometimes
     
  5. skrinkle

    skrinkle Cat Mom Staff Member

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    I’ve done long distance twice. The first time was hard, but my ex was an asshole. Second time was suuuuper easy.
     
  6. .diandra.

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    I'm in one. Its hard
     
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  7. Wrecky

    Wrecky Valkyrie Staff Member

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    @Rene Lopez Is that why you like sex dolls?
     
  8. *Loves-Death.

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    in 2007 i had nexopia relation ships, they were always with people from ablerta,, theni didnt
    i would say depends on how distant and how needy the people are
    nonting as interesting as how i only met up with a person once,, or twice
    but i had a collection
    and i was like 13 and super, horney and desperate
    it was fun thoe
     
  9. Slimeball

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    I've been in two. Neither were that bad tbh, but then again I like to have my own life and space, so being around someone all the time gets boring to me (until I'm really invested in the relationship) Both lasted over a year. Saw one of them fairly often too. One of them I saw every weekend for a while. We'd alternate weekends to go visit each other (he lived in Edmonton).
     
  10. mcpon14

    mcpon14 Junkie

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    Me and this guy had an Internet romance for around 2 years. When we finally met, he dumped me because he thought that I was secretly a guy, lol.
     
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  11. AngryMallSanta

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    Optimism is my friend. Just gotta try to stay busy and keep the mind occupied.
     
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