Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by skrinkle, Dec 10, 2017.
Absolutely hard in a long distance relationship
Can't do it. A lot of needs would go unfulfilled and things would go to shit in a hurry. I know myself well enough to know that I wouldn't be able to handle it for any real length of time. If we had already been together for a long time and it was just a temporary situation then I'd stick it out and stay committed but otherwise, just no.
My wife and I started as long distance. It can be hard, very hard. I believe though that if you make enough effort, it can work. I used to send my now wife letters even though we only lived a couple hrs away from each other. We always kept in touch. Communication is key.
It can work if it’s honest, patient and there’s a realistic plan in place to actually turn it into a real life situation. Most of them fail badly, but sometimes it’s worth the risk if the feelings are genuine
You actually get a chance to know who the other person is, which gets missed in real life sometimes
I’ve done long distance twice. The first time was hard, but my ex was an asshole. Second time was suuuuper easy.
I'm in one. Its hard
@Rene Lopez Is that why you like sex dolls?
in 2007 i had nexopia relation ships, they were always with people from ablerta,, theni didnt
i would say depends on how distant and how needy the people are
nonting as interesting as how i only met up with a person once,, or twice
but i had a collection
and i was like 13 and super, horney and desperate
it was fun thoe
I've been in two. Neither were that bad tbh, but then again I like to have my own life and space, so being around someone all the time gets boring to me (until I'm really invested in the relationship) Both lasted over a year. Saw one of them fairly often too. One of them I saw every weekend for a while. We'd alternate weekends to go visit each other (he lived in Edmonton).
Me and this guy had an Internet romance for around 2 years. When we finally met, he dumped me because he thought that I was secretly a guy, lol.
Optimism is my friend. Just gotta try to stay busy and keep the mind occupied.
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