Meeting my husband's parents

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    wifeangel28 Newbie

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    I’m nervous. That’s it! I’m meeting my husband’s parents tomorrow and it’s so nerve-wrecking. But my husband, whom I met on an Asian date tour, told me to be just myself, ya know, acting normal in front of them. He said his parents are kind and passionate, so I don’t need to worry. But still, I want to look best in front of my in-laws. What should I do? Please help!
     
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    You didn't meet them at the wedding?
     
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    Ohhhh, I was looking at the content of it for like 3 minutes thinking what the link was to the post (and trying to read it). Then I look again and notice she's the one in the article pic :imslow:

    It was defining some word that I don't know. But from the description, it sounded like she was defining "instinct".
     
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    But anyway, catfish alert! Batman in the building.
     
  6. tool

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    How sure are you that Kirari Chan is actually a woman?
     
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    Around 80%! An old female account called batman that hasn't logged in for 6 years logging in on the same week he/she left most likely isn't a coincidence.

    Also, it makes sense why he/she would catfish some average looking dude in the first place. If I were to catfish, I would choose some sexy half-Turkish God with perfect wavy hair.
     
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    As long as it's not @Mr. Sensitive, I'm fine with it. Kebabs beat their women and @Mr. Sensitive adore Saudi Arabia. That's a red flag.

    Tell me, from your interaction with her, what is her real personality behind all the facades?
     
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    It was the nicest person here! I don't think that was fake.

    But yeah, I think it was an internet loser. Probably doesn't socialise much irl. If you look at its fake facebook account, you can tell the account is being controlled by the batman we know. That's because if you go through the friends list, they're all from different parts of the world. Real accounts would at least have a few American friends if that's where he's claiming he's from. Kinda sad maintaining a fake facebook account, must take a lot of effort. But I didn't get that impression from posting with it.
     
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    Shouldn’t you have met his parents before you got married?
     
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    Just do your best, girl. :)
     
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    fake it till you make it. You're already doing a bang up job in that department. ps fake.
     
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    Just relax. As your husband said "be yourself". That's who he fell in love with and he wants them to see it for yourself. If you are too uptight and wanting to please them, you'll likely come off as stiff and in the wrong light.
     
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    Start off with an ice-breaker, I'd suggest. Try to tell a joke. If you can't do that, just fart. Either way, it'll get them laughing and put them at ease with you. Then the rest of the time will be much more easy-going for everybody involved. :gjob:
     

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