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My bf never starts sex

Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by lulu, Jul 4, 2018.

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Should I leave him or not?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

    1 vote(s)
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  1. lulu

    lulu Newbie

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    My bf (29) and I (24) have been together for over a year but He never attempts to have sex, though, he never refused me, but still it feels strange, I always do everything, including decide what to cook, because he s too tired to think he claims.....Rarely do we have intercourse, he does not seem to need it.....but I need it......I am a woman so this is ridiculous... even to post......but it is true....I am not a cheater never will be I rather leave than cheat... but the idea of leaving him hurts......I got used to him so much....
     
  2. Squire72

    Squire72 Moberator

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    Tell him how you feel.

    Obviously you have needs, we all do, just some more than others - I’ve grown used to celibacy, but if someone I care about wants sex I’m happy to oblige, just don’t have a yearning for it anymore.
     
  3. lulu

    lulu Newbie

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    well yes but he watches porn that means He has some needs just that I m not enoguh maybe for him
     
  4. Squire72

    Squire72 Moberator

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    Does he know you’re wanting it?

    If you fight about things a lot that can redirect his sex drive to porn
     
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  5. JC.Martin

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  6. misshaileystarr

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    Just tell him you're annoyed that you are always instigating it?
    Doesnt make sense to leave someone when they don't know something is wrong lol
     
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  7. Chivalry

    Chivalry Newbie

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    Got to agree
     
  8. Recon26

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    Sounds like a boy. I’m better I’ll give you what you need.
     
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  9. mcpon14

    mcpon14 Bleeds Nexopia Plus Member

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    Just wake him up to you blowing him. Problem solved. That'll get him to initiate it in the future. :gjob:
     
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  10. moonshards

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    You really need to talk to him about it. There is a possibility all he wants is a relationship based around romance rather than sex. Give him time. Try searching up asexuality as well!
     

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