Telling your parents that you're having a kid

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  1. misshaileystarr

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    When I had my first kid at 20, I was TERRIFIED to tell my dad. I invited him over, we had dinner, watched a movie, he drank some beer, we had dessert, and he LEFT, then I texted him telling him I was pregnant. Luckily by this time he was so drunk he came back and started doing a gangnam style "grampa style" dance. With that same pregnancy I had invited my mom and sister over for tacos. My sister complained that my cousin was pregnant again and said "thank god you're not getting pregnant anytime soon", in which I broke the news like WELL ACTUALLY. Second kid I was like whatever y'all I'm knocked up get ready for cranky bitch Hailey for the next nine months.
     
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  2. 867k

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    That's so fucked up.
    Even I had trouble convincing my doctor to refer me for the vasectomy. Didn't seem to matter that I personally don't want children. It wasn't until I told him of the health concerns I have for my wife taking birth control that he finally let up
    The nurse and the doctor before performing the surgery even asked me several more times of I was sure.
    I'm like yes, I know I have perfect genes and it's a shame I'm not paying them on... But yes I'm sure.
    I know that because my government pays for everything they want to make sure that funds aren't being wasted. And if I change my mind in the future shit will be expensive to reverse, but **** off is my body.

    Anyways, more and more people are going kid free by choice, so hopefully one day soon the judgment and shaming will stop.
     
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  3. skrinkle

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    Your dad sounds cool lol
     
  4. misshaileystarr

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    He's a character for sure. He was a bit of a hard ass when I was younger so I was worried but turns out it went fine lol
     
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  5. Nate Philips

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    I waited till 7 she was 7 months, then I took my mom out for lunch.
    My sister and grandma showing up kinda made things worse, but hey, it was a 100$ lunch I got to treat them to and my grandma lived to see her great grandson.
    Not an easy thing to do, but I ate that sandwich with everyone watching me.
    #win
     
  6. 867k

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    I hate kids :)
     
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  7. DateRape

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    and getting jizz on everything ... BUT NO BAAAABIESSSS
     
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  8. Mia Fricker

    Mia Fricker Newbie

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    its so personal if you want to have a child or not... nobody should be shamed about their opinion and decisions. When my child will be old enough for such a conversation i will have a serious chat with her about sex, responsibility and the birth control of course. Lucky us, there are so many nice reliable sources these days which you can read and/or recommend to someone who just start the sexual life.
     
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    I recently came across a very informative source about the Birth control, there are so many different birth control options and everything explained in an friendly and easy manner. Spend some time reading the website and i realized i didnt heard of some options at all. It is really a pity we have so many subjects at school and at the same time the most important things you have to figure out and learn by yourself. In my opinion a birth control class should be obligatory for all high school students.
     

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