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The Chase

Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by *Loves-Death., Feb 12, 2018.

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Do you like to play the chase?

  1. Yes

  2. No

  3. For just awhile

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  1. *Loves-Death.

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  2. handbanane

    handbanane Moderator

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    Nope. I absolutely loathe that initial casual phase or chase. It's just an awkward, anxious, unenjoyable time filled with uncertainty. I much prefer the comfort, affection, and intimacy of being with an established partner. The benefits of staying in the same relationship (provided it's a good one) always outweigh the excitement and variety that comes with seeing someone new for me.
     
  3. VietnamWarVet

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    Back in Vietnam, we had to chase rabbits, hunt them and eat 'em just to stay alive.
     
  4. *Loves-Death.

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    did you like it?
     
  5. VietnamWarVet

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    Actually quite delicious, we added some Sauce Béchamel onto the rabbit with a hint of parsley. It was divine.
     
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    skrinkle Cat Mom Staff Member

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    I like when guys chase me but I would never be interested in chasing a guy lol
     
  7. mcpon14

    mcpon14 Junkie

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    Did you guys eat worms?
     
  8. AngryMallSanta

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    Not a big fan of burning calories
     
  9. mcpon14

    mcpon14 Junkie

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    I love chasing guys but then they just end up wanting to fuck and most times, they make themselves too easy to get. :(
     
  10. handbanane

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    That's because a girl doing the pursuing and taking the lead in dating is literally the hottest and most attractive thing there is and is also just a rare treat.
     
  11. AngryMallSanta

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    Please don't speak for all men lol.
     
  12. handbanane

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    A *lot* of men would agree with that.
     
  13. AngryMallSanta

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    No. The hottest and most attractive thing...? No. You're just thirsty af.
     
  14. handbanane

    handbanane Moderator

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    So are most single guys.

    And yeah it's great because it reverses traditional roles and expectations that are normally forced on men in our society.
     
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    You'd get more hits on your dating apps and sites if you put Cuck in your name instead of Futurama
     
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    Welp, looks like I can't trust anyone around here. Thanks Diandra.
     
  17. AngryMallSanta

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    Wtf are you talking about?
     
  18. Squire72

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    I don’t chase, if someone expresses interest I get to know them and if we click, I’ll take it further. I’ve tried chasing and while it ended up in bed most times, it usually happened before getting to know them well enough and things fall apart. So not doing that any more.
     
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    The only guys I've chased ended up treating me like crap later :foie:
    Mr Wrecky is the exception because we chased each other :hearts:
     
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    Sorry, Antoine is my boyfriend and I thought it would be a safe space and he wouldn't be a poohead.

    stop being a poohead with private info I share with you
     
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