What are your deal breakers when it comes to dating?

I'm pretty big on the whole treating others with kindness thing. If a guy says something rude about someone on the first date I'm like

 

Same, someone who gossips too much

 

Someone who complains about everything in life, or who never has anything positive to say is a huge turn off for me.

 

What if they have depression?

 

If someone I already am in love with develops depression that would be an issue with which I would do my best to get them help and support them through it, but I was mainly talking about a first date...if she complains about everything, I would move on...

 

Dealbreakers for me:

• Racism
• Homophobia
• Sexism
• Xenophobia
• Genderism
• Ageism
• Poor hygiene
• Poor social skills
• Lack of empathy

 

Aside from the obvious ones mentioned above, kids. Or a desire for kids. I dated a guy for almost 4 years who consistently tried to talk me into wanting kids

 

Hahah honestly if someone is too easily offended I am like okay bye. I am such an asshole and I have about 0 filter, so if you can't handle that it isn't going to work for me. ALSO BAD TEETH, like brush them god damn. That's vain but whatever.

 

Constant negativity

Hard drugs

History of cheating

Doesn't take care of herself/poor hygiene

No attraction

No respect for me or others (this covers a lot of things)

No sexual compatibility

Incompatible life goals

 

Oh yeah, these things are super important.

 

i've dated a huge different variety of people i suppose

i understand that everyone has their own shit or whatever
so i don't have a specific type or will turn down people for whatever reason for the most part
if we get along and everything i tend to ignore a lot of things

 

Idk how I forgot one of the really important ones but also - not physically affectionate. That's huge for me. If I even start to get the sense that that's not something that my partner enjoys, initiates, and that comes naturally to them I'm gone immediately.

 

I'm the opposite. I like personal space, any girl within 2 feet of me will leave with a broken nose

 

Lovely

 

So, you don't like girls touching you or you touching them, lol?

 

No, that's gay

 

My bf always complains that I never cuddle him or w/e but I’d rather cuddle my cats

 

Racism, homophobia, sexism, cruelty, must love animals, especially dogs, be okay with weed, not an alcohol enthusiast... other than that not fussy. As long as someone isn’t an asshole, and we get along

Oh, and they like me haha... most important part

 

racism, bad attitudes, disrespectful to their mama, controlling