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What are your deal breakers when it comes to dating?

Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by skrinkle, Dec 4, 2017.

  1. skrinkle

    skrinkle Cat Mom Staff Member

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    I'm pretty big on the whole treating others with kindness thing. If a guy says something rude about someone on the first date I'm like :puke:
     
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    Same, someone who gossips too much
     
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    Someone who complains about everything in life, or who never has anything positive to say is a huge turn off for me.
     
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  4. mikeconley11

    mikeconley11 Junkie Pic Mod

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    What if they have depression?
     
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    If someone I already am in love with develops depression that would be an issue with which I would do my best to get them help and support them through it, but I was mainly talking about a first date...if she complains about everything, I would move on...
     
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  6. Karlijn

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    Dealbreakers for me:
    • Racism
    • Homophobia
    • Sexism
    • Xenophobia
    • Genderism
    • Ageism
    • Poor hygiene
    • Poor social skills
    • Lack of empathy
     
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  7. Wrecky

    Wrecky Valkyrie Staff Member

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    Aside from the obvious ones mentioned above, kids. Or a desire for kids. I dated a guy for almost 4 years who consistently tried to talk me into wanting kids :foie:
     
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    Hahah honestly if someone is too easily offended I am like okay bye. I am such an asshole and I have about 0 filter, so if you can't handle that it isn't going to work for me. ALSO BAD TEETH, like brush them god damn. That's vain but whatever.
     
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    Constant negativity

    Hard drugs

    History of cheating

    Doesn't take care of herself/poor hygiene

    No attraction

    No respect for me or others (this covers a lot of things)

    No sexual compatibility

    Incompatible life goals
     
  10. misshaileystarr

    misshaileystarr Newbie

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    Oh yeah, these things are super important.
     
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    sh4n3y Nexopian Elder Plus Member

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    i've dated a huge different variety of people i suppose

    i understand that everyone has their own shit or whatever
    so i don't have a specific type or will turn down people for whatever reason for the most part
    if we get along and everything i tend to ignore a lot of things
     
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    Idk how I forgot one of the really important ones but also - not physically affectionate. That's huge for me. If I even start to get the sense that that's not something that my partner enjoys, initiates, and that comes naturally to them I'm gone immediately.
     
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    mikeconley11 Junkie Pic Mod

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    I'm the opposite. I like personal space, any girl within 2 feet of me will leave with a broken nose
     
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  14. handbanane

    handbanane Moderator

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    Lovely
     
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    Wrecky Valkyrie Staff Member

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    :hearts:
     
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    So, you don't like girls touching you or you touching them, lol?
     
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    No, that's gay
     
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    My bf always complains that I never cuddle him or w/e but I’d rather cuddle my cats :psycho:
     
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    Racism, homophobia, sexism, cruelty, must love animals, especially dogs, be okay with weed, not an alcohol enthusiast... other than that not fussy. As long as someone isn’t an asshole, and we get along

    Oh, and they like me haha... most important part
     
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    racism, bad attitudes, disrespectful to their mama, controlling
     
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