Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by handbanane, Mar 21, 2018.
you went of 5 consecutive dates? Wow.
Yeah kudos to her for putting up with me.
don't scare her off with your patriarchal demands like "dont see other men"
If you don't like Christianity, monogamy only became widely adopted because of the Catholic Church.
No real numbers. You just gotta feel it out.
I see things already worked out so yay! In general though I find every relationship is different. You could have 5 dates with someone over 5 weeks and it would be weird to ask. But if you had 5 dates in two weeks and text all the time then it's a no brainer.
Every situation is different.
@The Reverend do you wanna fight
Do I know you? You come in here disliking posts, expect to be disliked back. Eventually you'll figure out how to post.
I asked mine marry me before I asked her to be my girlfriend
You don't ask at all.
That's so 1900s
You just drag her by her hair back to your cave, lol?
No haha you just go with the flow.
Eventually months down the road someone can be like...so... this is a thing then?
She told me later she really appreciates that I do stuff like that how it's "supposed to go" and like I said, I hate ambiguity.
I mean.. it worked.
Is she religious? Sounds like something that only a strict patriarchal system would support these days.
No. It's called having a personal preference. Maybe she's just a little traditional that way.
Personally preference for a patriarchal, heteronormative values. I’d be concerned, have you made sure she’s not a hillbilly?
I wanted to say that but didn't want to come off as rude
You guys are weird af
Don't be so judgmental We're just "different"
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