What do you guys feel is an appropriate amount of time

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  1. trazsh

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    you went of 5 consecutive dates? Wow.
     
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  2. handbanane

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    Yeah kudos to her for putting up with me.
     
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  3. trazsh

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    don't scare her off with your patriarchal demands like "dont see other men"
     
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  4. mcpon14

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    If you don't like Christianity, monogamy only became widely adopted because of the Catholic Church.
     
  5. BornInAshack

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    No real numbers. You just gotta feel it out.
     
  6. TabulaRasa

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    I see things already worked out so yay! In general though I find every relationship is different. You could have 5 dates with someone over 5 weeks and it would be weird to ask. But if you had 5 dates in two weeks and text all the time then it's a no brainer.

    Every situation is different.
     
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  8. The Reverend

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    Do I know you? You come in here disliking posts, expect to be disliked back. Eventually you'll figure out how to post.
     
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    I asked mine marry me before I asked her to be my girlfriend
     
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  10. AngryMallSanta

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    Same
     
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  11. izbestbro

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    You don't ask at all.
    That's so 1900s
     
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  12. mcpon14

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    You just drag her by her hair back to your cave, lol?
     
  13. izbestbro

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    No haha you just go with the flow.
    Eventually months down the road someone can be like...so... this is a thing then?
     
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    She told me later she really appreciates that I do stuff like that how it's "supposed to go" and like I said, I hate ambiguity.

    I mean.. it worked.
     
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    Is she religious? Sounds like something that only a strict patriarchal system would support these days.
     
  16. handbanane

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    No. It's called having a personal preference. Maybe she's just a little traditional that way.
     
  17. trazsh

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    Personally preference for a patriarchal, heteronormative values. I’d be concerned, have you made sure she’s not a hillbilly?
     
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    :bow: :bow: I wanted to say that but didn't want to come off as rude :blush:
     
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    You guys are weird af
     
  20. Wrecky

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    Don't be so judgmental :foie: We're just "different"
     

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