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Would you ever forgive your partner for cheating?

Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by skrinkle, Dec 4, 2017.

  1. skrinkle

    skrinkle Cat Mom Staff Member

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    What would the situation have to be in order for you to forgive that?
     
  2. MarkFL

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    No, that's unforgivable for me. I'm not going to waste time on someone like that, no way no how.
     
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  3. skrinkle

    skrinkle Cat Mom Staff Member

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    When I was younger I would have forgave them if they wanted to work on the relationship, but now there's no way
     
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  4. Naveed

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    yes i will forgave and move on
     
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  5. skrinkle

    skrinkle Cat Mom Staff Member

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    Unconditionally? What if it were to happen more than once?
     
  6. mikeconley11

    mikeconley11 Junkie Pic Mod

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    Yeah, I'm a push over
     
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  7. Naveed

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    if it goes more than one, i will kill her :) and move on in to the jail
     
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  8. skrinkle

    skrinkle Cat Mom Staff Member

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    Lol? :shifty:
     
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    I could if it happened only once but more than once after you've managed to forgive them is just brutal.
     
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    Forgiveness only in the scenario of substance abuse and Love

    If I felt as if I truly were “in love” and knew the feeling we’re close to mutual

    And only if it were a mind altered cheating situation drunkenly hooking up with someone
    As opposed to her having a secret constant relationship and communication with someone else.
     
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    I guess I would forgive her because I'm indulgent(forgive easily). But there is limit.
     
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    There is no reason to be in a relation, so I see no reason to end one.
     
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    My ex cheated on me constantly, I continuously "forgave" him, but he kept doing it. It's not worth the hassle. If they aren't able to be faithful then they aren't worth your time.
     
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  14. handbanane

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    Nope. I give no second chances with cheating. I've had it happen too many times already to have any tolerance for that. Do it once and you're done.

    I'm a firm believer in once a cheater, always a cheater.
     
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    depends on what she did and how she felt about it after

    if she was like completely devastated i'd have more sympathy vs if she was like "I SUCKED HIS DICK CAUSE YOU WON'T WATCH DAYS OF OUR LIFE WITH ME"

    bye felicia :teleport:
     
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    Yes but for every time he cheats, I get to cheat on him. :clap:
     
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  17. handbanane

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    Has he done it lately? ;)
     
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    Actually, I cheated on him. :cry: So now, he gets one freebie. :gjob:
     
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    Dude.. send him over, you bf is hot AF :rofl:
     
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    How do you know what he looks like, lol? :err:
     

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